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Adoption vs. Abortion

Decisions...some are big and some are small. Some don't affect your life at all and others have the power to change the rest of your life. If you are pregnant, then you are faced with a big decision about the future of your child and the outcome of your pregnancy. There are several options available to you, two of which are Adoption and Abortion. Below you will find a comparison to questions regarding these two choices. In some ways the answers are very similar, but the difference is a matter between life and death.

The Similarities of Adoption and Abortion:

  • You can pursue earlier goals and plans.
  • You can live independently.
  • You will not have to parent prematurely.
  • You will be free from the financial burdens of parenting.
  • You will avoid being forced into a hasty marriage.
  • If you are a teenager, you can resume your youthful lifestyle.


    The Differences of Adoption and Abortion:

    Adoption
  • Your pregnancy ends with giving life.
  • You can feel good and positive about your choice.
  • You will remember giving birth.
  • You will have plenty of time to plan your and your baby's future.
  • You can hold, name and love your baby.
  • You can have continued contact with your child through an agency.

    Adoption Feeling Time Line

    Abortion
  • Your pregnancy ends with death.
  • You may feel guilt and shame about your choice.
  • You will remember taking a life.
  • Abortion is final; you can't reverse your decision.
  • You will never know or treasure your baby.
  • You will miss the opportunity to see your child develop.

    Adoption goes a step beyond choosing life for your baby. It is a quality of life decision for you and your child.



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    Christian Adoption Services
    24-hour Birth Mother Hotline
    1-800-453-1011 (English)
    1-888-297-4108 (Spanish)

    624 Matthews Mint Hill Road, Suite 134
    Matthews, North Carolina 28105
    Phone: 704-847-0038
    Fax: 704-841-1538
    Email: cas3@perigee.net

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